In bringing up children, every parent watches eagerly the child’s acquisition of each new skill-
the first spoken words, the first independent steps, or the beginning of reading and writing. It
is often tempting to hurry the child beyond his natural learning rate, but this can set up
dangerous feelings of failure and states of worry in the child might be encouraged to learn to
read before he knows the meaning of the words he reads. On the other hand, though, if a child is
left alone too much, or without any learning opportunities, he loses his natural enthusiasm for
life and his desire to find out new things for himself.
Parents vary greatly in their degree of strictness towards their children. Some may be especially
strict in money matters. Others are sever over times of coming home at night or punctuality for
meals. In general,the controls imposed represent the needs of the parents and the values of the
community as much as the child’s own happiness.
As regard the development of moral standards in the growing child, consistency is very important
in parental teaching. To forbid a thing one day and excuse it the next is no foundation for
morality. Also, parents should realize that “ example is better than precept ”. If they are
not sincere and do not practice what they preach, their children may grow confused and
emotionally insecure when they grow old enough to think for themselves, and realize they have been
to some extent fooled.
Just how tough the lobbying job on Capitol Hill will be become clear on Apr. 20, when Rubin
lectured 19chief executives on the need to discipline their Republican allies. With business and
the White House still trading charges over who is responsible for the defeat of fast-track trade
negotiating legislation in 1997, working together won’t be easy.
A sudden awareness of a marked difference between their parents’ principles and their morals can
be a dangerous disappointment.
From the health point of view we are living in a marvelous age. We are immunized from birth against
many of the most dangerous diseases. A large number of once fatal illnesses can now be cured by
modern drugs and surgery. It is almost certain that one day remedies will be found for the most
stubborn remaining diseases. The expectation of life has increased enormously. But though the
possibility of living a long and happy life is greater than ever before, every day we witness the
incredible slaughter of men, women and children on the roads. Man versus the motor-car! It is a
never-ending battle which man is losing. Thousands of people the world over are killed or horribly
mutilated each year and we are quietly sitting back and letting it happen.
It has been rightly said that when a man is sitting behind a steering wheel, his car becomes the
extension of his personality. There is no doubt that the motor-car often brings out a man's very
worst qualities. People who are normally quiet and pleasant may become unrecognizable when they
are behind a steering-wheel. They swear, they are ill-mannered and aggressive, willful as
two-years-olds and utterly selfish. All their hidden frustrations, disappointments and jealousies
seem to be brought to the surface by the act of driving.
The surprising thing is that society smiles so benignly on the motorist and seems to condone his
behaviour. Everything is done for his convenience. Cities are allowed to become almost
uninhabitable because of heavy traffic; towns are made ugly by huge car parks; the countryside is
desecrated by road networks; and the mass annual slaughter becomes nothing more than a statistic,
to be conveniently forgotten.
It is high time a world code were created to reduce this senseless waste of human life. With
regardto driving,
the laws of some countries are notoriously lax and even the strictest are not strict
enough. A code which was universally accepted could only have a dramatically beneficial effect on
the accident rate. Here are a few examples of some of the things that might be done. The driving
test should be standardized and made far more difficult than it is; all the drivers should be made
to take a test every three years or so; the age at which young people are allowed to drive any
vehicle should be raised to at least 21; all vehicles should be put through stringent annual tests
for safety. Even the smallest amount of alcohol in the blood can impair a person's driving
ability. Present drinking and driving laws (where they exist) should be made much stricter.
Maximum and minimum speed limits should be imposed on all roads. Governments should lay down
safety specifications for manufacturers, as has been done in the USA. All advertising stressing
power and performance should be banned. These measures may sound inordinately harsh. But surely
nothing should be considered as too severe if it results in reducing the annual toll of human
life. After all, the world is for human beings, not motor-cars.
Stress is a natural part of everyday life and there is no way to avoid it. In fact, it is not the
bad thing it is often supposed to be. A certain amount of stress is vital to provide motivation
and give purpose to life. Without stress, we would not get any excitement or enjoyment in our
lives. However, when stress gets out of control, it can lead to poor performance and ill health.
The amount of stress a person can withstand depends very much on the individual. Some people are
not afraid of stress, and such characters are obviously prime material for managerial
responsibilities. Others lose heart at the first sight of unusual difficulties. When exposed to a
particular stressful situation, our reactions are partly controlled by our genes, but
environmental factors also play a role. Our personalities are shaped by how we interact with our
surroundings, so it’s not surprising that people who have lived through major life changes or
traumatic events are more likely to suffer from stress-related problems.
Stress can be a physical, chemical, or emotional factor that causes bodily or mental tension.
Work-related stress is one of the most common forms. Long working hours, heavy workloads, job
insecurity, and conflicts with colleagues or bosses are all potential sources. Moreover, stress
can also arise from positive events, such as getting married, buying a new house, or receiving a
promotion. These events, known as "eustress," still require adjustment and therefore produce
stress symptoms.
The key to managing stress is to recognize its early signs. These may include difficulty
concentrating, irritability, fatigue, headaches, and changes in appetite or sleep patterns. Once
identified, there are several ways to deal with stress effectively. Regular physical exercise,
such as walking, swimming, or yoga, has been proven to reduce tension. Learning relaxation
techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation, can also help. Additionally, maintaining a
balanced diet, getting enough sleep, and setting realistic goals are crucial. Perhaps most
importantly, talking about your problems with friends, family, or a professional can provide
relief and new perspectives.
In conclusion, while stress is unavoidable, it is manageable. By understanding what causes stress
and adopting healthy coping strategies, we can turn stress from a threat into a challenge, and
even use it to our advantage.
In the digital age, the way we read has changed dramatically. E-books, tablets, and smartphones
have made it possible for people to carry entire libraries in their pockets. While digital reading
offers undeniable convenience, a growing body of research suggests that reading on paper may have
advantages that screens cannot replicate.
One of the key differences lies in comprehension. Several studies have found that when people read
the same text on paper and on a screen, those reading on paper tend to score higher on tests
measuring attention, memory, and deep understanding. The physical tangibility of a book—the feel
of pages, the ability to see how much you have read and how much remains—provides spatial
landmarks that help the brain organize information. When reading on a screen, these cues are
absent, and readers often resort to faster, more superficial processing.
Another issue is eye strain and fatigue. Staring at a backlit screen for hours can lead to digital
eye strain, characterized by dry eyes, blurred vision, and headaches. Paper, being non-digital and
non-backlit, reflects ambient light and is generally easier on the eyes. This is especially
concerning for students and professionals who spend long hours reading.
However, digital reading does have its strengths. It offers instant access to a vast range of
materials, often at lower costs than physical books. Features like search functions, adjustable
font sizes, and built-in dictionaries can enhance the reading experience, particularly for those
with visual impairments or learning disabilities. Moreover, digital devices are more
environmentally friendly in the long run, as they reduce the need for paper production and
transportation.
So, which is better? The answer likely depends on the purpose of reading. For deep, focused
reading—such as studying a textbook or reading a novel—paper may be superior. For quick, casual
reading, such as scanning news articles or checking emails, digital screens are perfectly
adequate. Ultimately, the most effective approach may be a hybrid one, using the best medium for
the task at hand.