Nowadays, there is a popular phenomenon that more and more parents are doing all things for
their children. For example, they will offer them everything like food or clothes at home. They
even
send them to school and arrange for everything at dorm for them. As a result, their children can do
nothing by themselves.
About this, there are many factors accountable for the phenomenon. On one hand, there is only one
child in
many families, so most parents regard them as their "Adam's Apple". So, they would try all best
to satisfy their needs. On the other hand, the whole society, including schools are paying more
attention to study rather than independent education.As parents, they should do their best to
encourage
their
children's independence. For one thing, they should allow their children to do those things that
they can manage themselves. For instance, washing, making the bed or making decisions. For another,
students themselves should develop an independent concept that they are mature enough to do things
freely since they have grown up. When they face some difficult situations, they should think by
themselves rather than ask parents to do whatever for them. Lastly, the school or society should
also advocate a kind of independent spirit that to be independent is vital for young people to grow
up and to be successful in the future.